Good news!!!!!!!!

After 9 long months I think this divorce is actually going to happen!!!!!

Had our pre-trial meeting today (where you try to agree on everything before the actual trial and have a judge available to assist if needed).

We were there 3 hours!!!!!!!!!!

All I could think was $$$

I swear lawyers talk as slow as they can on purpose!

Anyhow

Casey and I were able to agree on everything!!

I really wanted it all to be fair--no fights--and have him be able to keep the farm.

I really do want to be able to get along with him.

Judge said everything is set in stone

No changing anything

Don't have to go to our trial date

Now my lawyer just has to write it all up--and send it down for the judge to sign.

I asked if I would be officially divorced by Christmas and he said yes, hopefully next week!!

I'm not getting my hopes up--he said I could be divorced in three months...but we'll see.

I am really excited to be able to move forward.

I feel like this has been an anchor on my soul--weighing me down and stressing me out.
It will also be WONDEFUL to have a little financial breathing room.
In trying to get along with Casey I've been getting shorted on child support and struggling a bit-now that things are official I hope things are more predictable.  Really nice at this time of year especially!

Tomorrow I'm headed down to see Santa with the girls in my home town.

Then I'm off with my best girls to see Amy.

It should be a GRAND time.

I can't wait!!

Perhaps I'll even get some pics posted :)

Have a great weekend.

Happy December!!